We limit ourselves and sabotage our own dreams, goals, and desires by making excuses. Our excuses create barriers between us and our dreams, pushing away everything we have always wanted. Therefore, if we want to make our dreams come true, we must begin by breaking the habit of making excuses.
Every day, we find a new excuse for not doing the things we have always wanted to do. We convince ourselves through these excuses, using them as justification for not following the path that leads to our goals. They condemn us to live a life we do not like. And the worst part is that we believe those excuses are valid, blaming them for our failure, when in reality, we are the cause of it.
Why do we make so many excuses? Why do we punish ourselves this way? Why do we condemn ourselves to live a life we do not enjoy? Why do we refuse to live the kind of life that could bring us what we have been searching for? The answer is simple: because it is easier. It is easier to make an excuse and do nothing than to do the work required to achieve our goals and make our dreams come true.
“If you really want to do something, you’ll find a way. If you don’t, you’ll find an excuse.” – Jim Rohn
By making excuses, we choose the easy way out. And by “easy,” I do not mean painless. Working hard is difficult. But it is far more painful to remain stuck in a life we do not want, doing things we do not enjoy. It is even more painful to realize that we are the reason we have not pursued what we truly desire. It is hard to accept that, in the end, no one is more responsible for our situation than we are.
I constantly hear people say things like: I don’t have enough money. I don’t have time. My family won’t allow it. I’m too tired. I’m too old. I’m too young. I don’t have the knowledge. I have too many responsibilities. Have you ever heard something like that? I’m sure you have. I’ve heard it from many people — and even from myself. We constantly make excuses and believe they are reasonable. And under the phrase, “I’m not making excuses, I’m just being realistic,” we justify ourselves.
“The only thing standing between you and your goal is the bullshit story you keep telling yourself as to why you can’t achieve it.” – Jordan Belfort
The truth is that nothing limits us more than our own thoughts. There is almost always a way to move forward. It may not be easy. It may not be comfortable. But it will be worth it. If you want to achieve your goals and turn your dreams into reality, you must stop looking for excuses and start looking for solutions.
If other people are doing what you want to do, if someone is living the life you dream of, if others have achieved what you desire, it is not because they were lucky. It is because they chose to stop making excuses. They decided to do whatever it took to move forward. And you can do the same.
Stop for a moment and forget all the reasons why you think you cannot do something. Imagine instead that everything is possible.
What would you be doing right now?
What small step could you take today?
What action would bring you closer to where you want to be?
From my own experience, I know how wonderful it feels to do things I once believed were impossible. Everything seems impossible — until it is done.So what could happen if you try? Take responsibility for your life. Either find a way or create one. And begin living the life you have imagined.