If we spent the same amount of energy we used to complain about creating the life we wanted, how different would our lives be? The problem is that we aren’t always as committed to changing our lives as we are to complaining about the things we don’t like about them. The good news is that the life we yearn for, the things we desire, and everything we dream of are possible. We just need to be willing to commit daily to creating the life we want to experience. Are you committed to changing your life?

We may not like many things about our lives, but instead of taking action to change them, we spend our precious time complaining. We tend to focus on the problem, not the solution. We surrender to a miserable life instead of fighting for the life we truly want. We don’t commit to change because we’re already too committed to complaining about the things we despise.

Why? Because it’s easier that way. It’s hard to change your life. It requires leaving our comfort zone, which isn’t even that comfortable, but it’s a place where we have what we need to survive. So, we refuse to change our current situation, becoming eternal complainers. But can you imagine how different our lives would be if we simply decided to do something to change them? The first thing to know is this: if we’re not genuinely committed to doing something about it, everything will remain the same, and nothing will change.

“Commitment is that turning point in your life when you seize the moment to alter your destiny.” – Denis Waitley

I’ve seen many people frustrated because they’re unhappy with their jobs, financial situations, or chosen careers. Others feel unfulfilled in their relationships and depressed because they aren’t living the life they want or doing what they love. There are people unsatisfied with their health or frustrated by failing at school or university. These people have reasons to complain and feel miserable, yet they haven’t taken action to change their lives.

I’ve often found myself in that position—being the complainer, not the doer. I used to think how easy life would be if I could have the same luck as Aladdin and find a magic lamp to grant me three wishes. Frustrated that such a fantasy would never come true, I realized I could be my own genie. I’ve always believed God was ready to help me, so why wasn’t I doing anything to change my life? Because I didn’t believe in myself. Then, one day, I decided to become my own genie. I quit the habit of complaining and became the creator of my own destiny.

“Commitment unlocks the doors of imagination, allows vision, and gives us the right stuff to turn our dream into reality.” – James Womack

You, too, can become your own genie. The first step is to decide what you truly want and take that first step toward your goal. They say Rome wasn’t built in a day, so don’t be discouraged if you can’t change your life overnight. If you’re committed to making it happen and take the right steps toward your dreams, you will eventually turn your life around. Do you want different results? Change your actions! The same behavior will lead to the same outcomes. You don’t like your job? Change it! Not doing well at school? Study more! Struggling with money? Spend less! Want to travel? Find a way! I know it’s not as easy as it sounds, but if you focus on finding ways to change the things you’re unhappy with, you will eventually succeed. The key is commitment.

Focus on solutions, not problems. Stop complaining, take the reins of your life, and create better outcomes. When should you start? Today! What should you do? Decide what you want. What next? Take the first step! It doesn’t matter what it is; just begin. Start building the life you want with what you have right now. As you move forward, you’ll find new opportunities, meet people willing to help and discover tools to build your dream. If you’re genuinely committed, sooner or later, life will welcome you with a new tomorrow.

“Most people fail, not because of lack of desire, but because of lack of commitment.” – Vince Lombardi

It’s not as hard as it seems; in fact, it’s much simpler than we think. The key is to do what needs to be done to make it happen—that’s the only way to get what we want. Whatever we’re unhappy with, complaining won’t change anything. Sometimes, we can easily fix what’s wrong with our lives, but sometimes, it requires a bigger commitment. In some cases, the only way to improve our lives and get what we want is to make a completely radical change. Start now, start today, and step by step, create the life you want to experience. Everything is possible for those who dare to dream and are committed enough to make it happen!

Don’t give up. Don’t give in. Create the life you believe in. If you’re genuinely committed to changing your life, nothing can stop you!