# Love Revolution > Love as a practice. Life as it is. ## Posts - [Taking Responsibility: The Path to a Better Life](https://loverevolutionblog.com/taking-responsibility-the-path-to-a-better-life/): It’s not what happens to us but how we respond that shapes our life experience. The key is responsibility. While it may not sound exciting, the level of responsibility we take in our daily decisions—how we choose to think, feel, and act—can truly transform our lives. Throughout life, we will encounter unfair and unpleasant situations. We’ll face challenges, failures, and rejections. We might be humiliated and hurt and have countless reasons to believe the world is against us. These experiences can leave us feeling sad, depressed, stressed, and overwhelmed. It’s easy to get stuck in a cycle of self-pity, but […] - [Beyond Limits: The Power of Doing What You Think You Can't](https://loverevolutionblog.com/beyond-limits-the-power-of-doing-what-you-think-you-cant/): How many times have you told yourself or others, “I can’t do this”? How often has an idea in your mind been quickly erased by the words, “I can’t do that”? How many times has the fear of not being able to do something prevented you from moving forward? The truth is, a simple statement like that, with just a few words, can completely limit you, closing every door to new challenges and opportunities. To move forward, we must do the things we think we cannot do. You might have the best idea, be offered a wonderful new opportunity, or […] - [A New Dawn: Redefining Normal in a Post-Pandemic World](https://loverevolutionblog.com/a-new-dawn-redefining-normal-in-a-post-pandemic-world/): Due to the Coronavirus outbreak, our lives have drastically changed, and our reality is no longer what it once was. However, amid this crisis, humanity has been given something precious: more time. In our hectic lives, filled with long working hours, studies, tasks, social gatherings, and responsibilities, time has always been a luxury. Now, with most of us forced to stay home due to the COVID-19 pandemic, which has severely affected people around the world, we’ve been given time—not necessarily time to travel, attend festivals, or gather with friends and family, but time to think, meditate, and reflect. The question […] - [Silencing Negative Voices: A Journey to Self-Empowerment](https://loverevolutionblog.com/silencing-negative-voices-a-journey-to-self-empowerment/): We’ve all experienced those negative voices in our heads. The kind that suddenly intrudes, takes over our thoughts, and has the power to change our whole life experience in a second. These voices are the harshest critics—they criticize, condemn, and judge us so intensely that if we don’t learn to silence them, we might start believing them. This belief can become an obstacle to developing the greatness within us, preventing us from becoming the person we’re capable of being. Stay with me as we explore how to understand and deal with these negative voices. When the negative voices start talking, […] - [Awakening in the Arctic: The Magic of the Unknown](https://loverevolutionblog.com/awakening-in-the-arctic-the-magic-of-the-unknown/): When you decide to step into the unknown, life rewards you with a whole new world of opportunities. It is there where miracles happen. One day, when you least expect it, like magic, almost instantly, life revolutionizes your entire reality. The impossible becomes possible; what once seemed like a fantasy becomes real. Suddenly, you can touch what once seemed unreachable. Your heartbeat quickens, adrenaline courses through your veins, and you feel things you’ve never felt before. You take a deep breath, and in that precise moment, your soul awakens—you become conscious. You have stepped into the unknown; now, the adventure […] - [Finding Light in the Darkness: Lessons from the Arctic Circle](https://loverevolutionblog.com/finding-light-in-the-darkness-lessons-from-the-arctic-circle/): Another year has ended, and a new one has begun. We have left behind our past and are now focused on the new experiences ahead. Periods of darkness and light may come to your door, but here is an important lesson for the new year that has just begun: you are the main star. Join me, and together let’s discover a new key to making this year the most wonderful of all! Living above the Arctic Circle, in a beautiful city called Tromsø in Northern Norway, has not only provided me with fascinating landscapes, amazing nature, and unique experiences, but […] - [Unleash the Dreamer Within: The Power of Believing in Your Dreams](https://loverevolutionblog.com/unleash-the-dreamer-within-the-power-of-believing-in-your-dreams/): I am an unstoppable dreamer. I dream from the smallest to the biggest, from the seemingly insignificant to the extraordinary. For me, dreams are different adventures along the path of life, and each one is a challenge that makes life much more meaningful. My brain is addicted to goals and dreams, and my soul is an unstoppable seeker of new adventures. Deep inside, we are all dreamers, but not everyone dares to dream, and not all are willing to make them happen. Are you a dreamer, and are you willing to make your dreams come true? As long as you have […] - [Escaping the Ordinary: Crafting a Life of Dreams](https://loverevolutionblog.com/escaping-the-ordinary-crafting-a-life-of-dreams/): As fugitives, we spend our lives escaping reality, running and hiding from its claws. We seek redemption from this harsh world by wandering through alternate realities, hoping to enter the sweet realm of dreams where everything is possible. The question is: Are we condemned to spend our whole lives fleeing from reality, only to encounter brief moments of bliss in our dreams, or is it possible to make our dreams our daily reality? It’s no wonder why so many people constantly seek ways to escape reality and enter the realm of dreams. Real life can be oppressive, limiting, boring, and […] - [Change the World, One Action at a Time](https://loverevolutionblog.com/change-the-world-one-action-at-a-time/): Every revolution begins with a small step. Every small action or thought carries the seed of our success. A single small action or thought can turn the world upside down; it’s the small details that create a huge difference and impact the way human beings live and experience life. One small change can push us forward in the right direction, and its effect will ripple out, expanding and continuing without end, creating many waves. When combined, every small action creates an impact of massive proportions. Will you accept the challenge? One of the main reasons we tend to fail on […] - [The Hidden Poison: How Toxic People Affect Our Lives](https://loverevolutionblog.com/the-hidden-poison-how-toxic-people-affect-our-lives/): We live in a revolutionary era where people are awakening to the true reality around them. The current state of our planet and the various diseases caused by our negligent actions are no longer hidden or unknown. However, there is one overlooked source of pollution that is highly dangerous to all humans: toxic people. The venom of these individuals is extremely poisonous, and caution is advised. Have you ever heard the phrase, “Tell me who your friends are, and I will tell you who you are”? I remember someone saying that to me a few years ago—I don’t recall who […] - [Here Comes the New Year: Are you Ready for New Challenges?](https://loverevolutionblog.com/here-comes-the-new-year-are-you-ready-for-new-challenges/): Another year is about to end, and a new one is about to begin. Over 300 days have passed since the start of 2017, and here we are, safe and sound. We’ve all faced different challenges and battles, tasted both defeat and victory, encountered difficulties, learned lessons, and survived adversities. Now is the time to pause our hectic, chaotic, sometimes quiet, and absolutely beautiful lives for a moment and reflect. It’s time to connect deeply with what surrounds us and form a profound connection with our own minds. The new year, 2018, is just around the corner, bringing more challenges […] - [Unleashing the Genius Within: Embracing Your Unique Talents](https://loverevolutionblog.com/unleashing-the-genius-within-embracing-your-unique-talents/): We live in a world where members of society are labeled as if they were merely products destined for store shelves, to be selected or discarded according to someone’s needs. The society we live in either condemns or glorifies you based on the label you possess. From the moment we start school, we are categorized by grades, and those symbols become our burdens. We start to believe that our intelligence is measured by the number of excellent grades we get, and that belief tends to shape our reality. However, the truth is that everyone is a genius, each with our […] - [The Power of Teamwork: Achieving True Success and Ultimate Peace](https://loverevolutionblog.com/the-power-of-teamwork-achieving-true-success-and-ultimate-peace/): True success in every aspect of our lives can only be achieved through teamwork. If humans are willing to work together, cooperate, and act as one for the benefit of all, they can overcome any obstacle, win any battle, and achieve ultimate success. There is nothing more powerful than a group of people united by a common goal. When individuals become part of a group, working for both their own benefit and that of others, the opportunities for success are endless, and ultimate peace can finally be achieved. But why is ultimate peace so elusive? Peace is something we all strive […] - [Embrace Your True Self: The Courage to Defy Society’s Expectations](https://loverevolutionblog.com/embrace-your-true-self-the-courage-to-defy-societys-expectations/): We constantly live our lives fighting a battle between who we really are and who we are supposed to be. We were taught that in order to be successful, we must belong and fit into this society. The truth is, when we deny our true identity, even if we achieve success and are accepted by the majority, we will fail. But when we rise and declare who we really are, facing our doubts, fears, criticism, and opposition courageously in the name of our highest ideals and values, and dare to be our true selves and live our purpose, nobody can […] - [The Poison We Accept: Why Taking Things Personally Harms Us](https://loverevolutionblog.com/the-poison-we-accept-why-taking-things-personally-harms-us/): Day after day, we deliberately accept the venom of poisonous people into our minds, leading to devastating consequences. Once there, this venom annihilates our self-confidence, destroys our self-esteem, and floods our thoughts with anger, hatred, and resentment. The cause? Taking things too personally. The cure? Living without the influence of other people’s opinions. Are you taking things personally? Are you letting other people’s opinions and behaviors define your true self? We go through life as if we have a target hanging from our necks. We feel like inoffensive deer grazing peacefully in the woods, surrounded by heartless hunters waiting for […] - [Navigating Life's Conflicts: Strength Over Force](https://loverevolutionblog.com/navigating-lifes-conflicts-strength-over-force/): Life is composed of simple and complex conflicts that affect our daily lives to a lesser or greater extent. Every single day, life challenges us, disturbing our peace with new conflicts. Some of these require no more than a simple solution, while others demand more advanced approaches, and still, others compel us to develop or discover solutions that aren’t found in any book. However, there is one simple rule that can help us navigate our daily circumstances: “Forcing things is never the solution.” How many times in our lives do we try to resolve a conflict, repair something, or change […] - [Creating Your Own Luck: The Power of Perspective and Perseverance](https://loverevolutionblog.com/creating-your-own-luck-the-power-of-perspective-and-perseverance/): There are moments in our lives when luck doesn’t seem to be on our side. The things we desire are denied to us in a brutal way, and feelings of despair, sorrow, anger, and disappointment flood our hearts. Suddenly, we find ourselves lost, standing in front of a brick wall in the middle of our life’s journey. Our dreams and desires have been taken away, doors have closed, and our hopes and illusions have vanished. Confused and upset, we try to find a reason for our misfortune. We ask ourselves, again and again, “Why?” But the answer remains elusive—until now. […] - [The Secret to Success: Keep Moving Forward](https://loverevolutionblog.com/the-secret-to-success-keep-moving-forward/): Throughout our lifetime, we pass through different stages—periods of extreme joy, calmness, and peace, as well as periods of chaos and brutal struggle. To emerge victorious from these stages, we must keep moving forward. Within ourselves, we have the necessary tools to overcome any obstacle and achieve our goals and dreams. One of the secrets to success is to always keep moving forward. I am an unstoppable dreamer, always looking for new adventures. Leaving my comfort zone is something I have done often in recent years. Each time I do it, it doesn’t take long before I am face-to-face with […] - [Embracing Adversity: Unlocking Your Greatest Potential](https://loverevolutionblog.com/embracing-adversity-unlocking-your-greatest-potential/): It is in moments of difficulty that a person can discover their greatest self. When adversity knocks on our door, we have different options: we can embrace it and transform it into an opportunity for personal growth, or we can let it control our feelings, emotions, and daily lives, limiting our potential for development and evolution. Alternatively, we can do nothing and let a great opportunity slip away. What we choose to do in the face of adversity determines our defeat or our victory. The truth about adversity is that it possesses a seed that contains the key to our […] - [Happiness Starts with a Smile](https://loverevolutionblog.com/happiness-starts-with-a-smile/): The type of society we live in and the way we live our lives have led to the disappearance of smiles. In this abnormal society, abnormal behaviors have become the new normal. As a result, in this sad, bitter, and struggle-filled world, a smile has become something rare. What we often overlook is that a simple smile can actually heal many of the world’s problems. One single smile brings numerous benefits and can change how we experience life! We live in a hectic, chaotic, and stressful way, immersed in a lifestyle that limits our ability to smile, reserving it only […] - [Shaping Tomorrow: The Power of Our Actions and Their Consequences](https://loverevolutionblog.com/shaping-tomorrow-the-power-of-our-actions-and-their-consequences/): Our actions and their consequences shape our future. Every action has a consequence, whether long-term or short-term. Some are reversible, while others are irreversible. Some may seem insignificant, having little impact on our lives, but others can change our lives for the better or worse. Therefore, it is important to remember that we cannot escape the consequences of our actions. We create our destiny day by day, decision by decision, and action by action. Our lives are essentially the result of our actions, and in some cases, they are also shaped by the actions of others. The consequences of our […] - [From Stress to Serenity: The Importance of Taking a Break](https://loverevolutionblog.com/from-stress-to-serenity-the-importance-of-taking-a-break/): Tick-tock, tick-tock. The clock’s hands keep spinning faster and faster; they never stop. Second, after second, life passes by quickly. Time doesn’t give us a break, consuming our existence minute by minute. We always rush against the clock; it seems like the day has fewer than 24 hours, and time flies by. Our schedules are packed with plans, and the stress is high while the joy is low. Life moves so fast, time never stops, and I wonder: When did you last take a break to enjoy your wonderful life? We live in a hectic world where our minds rarely take a […] - [Turning Dreams into Reality: A New Year's Call to Action](https://loverevolutionblog.com/turning-dreams-into-reality-a-new-years-call-to-action/): A new year has begun. A new opportunity awaits you. The past is gone, and the present is all we have. In this moment, we have the chance to begin again: to create something new, to dream a new dream, or to do something we’ve never done before. We have the great opportunity to build the life we’ve always imagined. So, in this new year, will you start creating your dream, or will you continue building it? Or will you let another opportunity slip by to make your dreams come true? Now is the perfect time to start building your […] - [365 New Beginnings: Welcoming 2017 with Open Arms](https://loverevolutionblog.com/365-new-beginnings-welcoming-2017-with-open-arms/): We can almost see it—2017, the new year, is about to arrive. It carries a big suitcase loaded with hopes, opportunities, challenges, adventures, goals, dreams, and more. And I believe we are all wondering the same questions: What’s in that suitcase with my name on it? What will the future hold? The answer is simple: 2017 will bring us what is best for us and all the things we are ready to receive. Are your arms open? Is your heart open? Are you ready to embrace the new opportunities this year will bring? Every new year comes with new opportunities […] - [Rediscovering the True Spirit of Christmas: A Celebration of Love](https://loverevolutionblog.com/rediscovering-the-true-spirit-of-christmas-a-celebration-of-love/): The year is almost over, and with Christmas around the corner, it’s easy to lose control. During this time of year—especially in the days leading up to Christmas—people tend to be more stressed than relaxed. Our minds are full of things to do: we need to organize everything with our families, prepare as much food as possible, and attend to one particularly urgent task: gifts. But why do we truly celebrate Christmas? What is the real meaning of it? For many, the most important thing before Christmas is buying gifts. The little story about the old man with a long […] - [The Road to Healing: Letting Go of the Past](https://loverevolutionblog.com/the-road-to-healing-letting-go-of-the-past/): Sometimes, in a person’s life, a battle occurs between them and their past. This battle occurs in the present. The past controls and conditions the present, and the person becomes a victim of their past, causing their life to be covered with suffering. But is the past indeed the cause of suffering? If this battle is real, how can we win? Imagine with me for a moment that we are witnessing a trial—a fictional trial. Today, the court is going to dictate the sentence. The victim is a woman, and the defendant is her past. The woman accuses her past […] - [Breaking the Chains of Fear: The Path to Achieving Your Dreams](https://loverevolutionblog.com/breaking-the-chains-of-fear-the-path-to-achieving-your-dreams/): At least once in our lives, we will be challenged to face our fears in order to grow, evolve, and achieve what we yearn for, reaching our goals and making our dreams a reality. Victory is not guaranteed, but if we let our fears win, refuse to leave our comfort zone, and decide not to pursue our dreams, one thing is guaranteed: our own defeat and the death of our dreams. Therefore, if we want to make our dreams a reality, we must face all our fears! Our fears have the ability to paralyze us. They create a barrier between […] - [The Power of Understanding: A Journey of Compassion - Part II](https://loverevolutionblog.com/the-power-of-understanding-a-journey-of-compassion-part-ii/): In the previous part, I began writing a story I imagined one night while gazing at the stars. This short story is about the power of understanding—how different everything could be if we were less judgmental and more compassionate toward each other. I hope you enjoy it! He started seeing flashing images passing quickly before his eyes like a movie. As the scenes unfolded, he began to recognize the boy in the photos—his life unfolding in brief glimpses. With each image, the boy grew older, and suddenly, the man realized who it was: his neighbor, a shy, quiet young man […] - [The Power of Understanding: A Journey of Compassion](https://loverevolutionblog.com/the-power-of-understanding-a-journey-of-compassion/): When it comes to criticizing and judging others, we are all experts. Without mercy, we go through life like judges, criticizing and condemning. But what would happen if we spent the same energy we use to judge others on trying to understand them? Could our understanding change the way we see people? What if we had the chance to walk in someone else’s shoes? A few days ago, on one of those beautiful summer nights when the sky was clear, full of stars, and the temperature was pleasant, I sat quietly on my balcony, gazing at the sky. For some […] - [Embrace the Flow: Life Always Moves On](https://loverevolutionblog.com/embrace-the-flow-life-always-moves-on/): Life is like a river; it is constantly flowing. It can flow slowly or quickly and change course, but nothing can stop the river from flowing. The same happens with life—no external circumstances can stop it from moving forward. One thing is sure: Life always goes on. We have different options: We can go with the flow and move forward with life, stay still like a rock while life passes over us, or fight against the current. Will you move forward toward a better future, or will you remain stuck in that dark and hopeless place? You create your own […] - [From Complaints to Action: The Power of Daily Commitment](https://loverevolutionblog.com/from-complaints-to-action-the-power-of-daily-commitment/): If we spent the same amount of energy we used to complain about creating the life we wanted, how different would our lives be? The problem is that we aren’t always as committed to changing our lives as we are to complaining about the things we don’t like about them. The good news is that the life we yearn for, the things we desire, and everything we dream of are possible. We just need to be willing to commit daily to creating the life we want to experience. Are you committed to changing your life? We may not like many […] - [Taking Things for Granted: When the Important Things Become Invisible](https://loverevolutionblog.com/taking-things-for-granted-when-the-important-things-become-invisible/): The more we see something, the more invisible it becomes to us. We take things we once desired for granted, which are essential for our well-being—valuable things, treasures, beautiful things, and extraordinary people who enrich our lives. The problem is that the consumer society in which we live has made us blind. We have lost all sense of what is truly important and focused all our energy on less meaningful things. Ironically, we often realize how important something is only when we lose it. That is the moment when we learn to give something the value it always deserved. Once […] - [Follow Your Passion, and the Rest Will Follow](https://loverevolutionblog.com/follow-your-passion-and-the-rest-will-follow/): We spend most of our time immersed in an endless race. We go through life chasing something, believing it will give us everything we want. This thing is called money, and we think it will make all our dreams come true. We make money our first priority, chasing it at all costs. Ultimately, we pay a high price for it and lose everything. We realize that money blinded us, leading us down the wrong path. In the process, we’ve killed our own dreams, burned our desires, and extinguished the flame of our passion. To avoid this, we must change direction […] - [Honesty: A Forgotten Value, A Key to Freedom](https://loverevolutionblog.com/honesty-a-forgotten-value-a-key-to-freedom/): On the road to becoming the best version of ourselves, honesty should be an important value to keep in mind. The problem is that we live in a society that rewards us for telling lies and punishes us for being honest. Telling lies has become a regular habit among human beings, and we have accepted it as valid behavior. Honesty is a value that we all praise, but it is often forgotten—it has become one of the rarest qualities in a person. But can we reverse this, or are we condemned to a life of lies? The answer is yes. […] - [Secure but Stuck: Breaking Free from the Illusion of Comfort](https://loverevolutionblog.com/secure-but-stuck-breaking-free-from-the-illusion-of-comfort/): One of the things people constantly seek, consciously or unconsciously, is security. We have a fundamental need to feel safe because it guarantees our survival. Certainty makes us comfortable, while uncertainty shakes our world, putting us in a place of extreme vulnerability. This need for security may guarantee our existence and make us feel comfortable and safe, but does it really guarantee freedom, peace, happiness, success, and everything we might want in life? Stay with me, and let’s explore this together! We always seek security because we believe it will bring us freedom. We think that lifetime security means lifetime […] - [Breaking Free from the Competition Trap: A Journey Toward Self-Mastery](https://loverevolutionblog.com/breaking-free-from-the-competition-trap-a-journey-toward-self-mastery/): Since childhood, we are taught to compete. Day after day, the habit of competing with others is ingrained in us. Before we realize it, competition becomes a central theme in our lives, where success is often measured by beating others. But is life truly a competition? Do we need to compete to be successful? Does the act of competing with others bring real victory? Can the outcome of a competition truly define a person? Let’s explore more about competition—its definition, significance, and impact on human beings. According to the dictionary, competition is defined as “a situation in which someone is […] - [Becoming Who You Were Meant to Be: It's Never Too Late](https://loverevolutionblog.com/becoming-who-you-were-meant-to-be-its-never-too-late/): Most of the time, we give up on life, refusing to become the person we are capable of becoming either because we think we have missed the opportunity or because we do not believe we can aspire for more. We condemn ourselves to live the rest of our lives being someone we are not, assuming we will never become who we were meant to be for whatever reason we may have. But the truth is, it is never too late to become the person we were meant to be. Some people know from the very beginning of their lives what […] - [Life's Second Chances: Unlocking Endless Possibilities](https://loverevolutionblog.com/lifes-second-chances-unlocking-endless-possibilities/): The beauty of life is that it always gives a second chance. At any given moment, life can surprise us with another opportunity, allowing us to try something one more time, recreate ourselves anew, and start again. The problem is that we either miss that chance by remaining attached to a past failure—a story without a happy ending—or we consciously deny accepting that chance, condemning ourselves to a life of failure. As always, life is made up of choices, and our success depends on seizing the chances that life gives us. Our past could be full of failures. We could have […] - [The Freedom Beyond Attachment](https://loverevolutionblog.com/the-freedom-beyond-attachment/): Most of our struggles come from our attachment to things, people, situations, and various other aspects of life. The issue arises when we become dependent on those things to survive, placing ourselves in a position of extreme vulnerability. When we lose what we are attached to, a life of distress and struggle becomes inevitable. Therefore, to avoid so much suffering, we must detach ourselves from everything that we could lose and free ourselves from attachment. Living attached to places, things, people, jobs, or situations is the key to a life of struggle. I know it sounds extreme, but the truth […] - [Becoming a Rebel with a Cause: Unleashing Your True Potential](https://loverevolutionblog.com/becoming-a-rebel-with-a-cause-unleashing-your-true-potential/): There are many rebels, but few with a cause. These rebels think they are free, but what they do not know is that they are only puppets of a system that has them under its control. Therefore, to attain real freedom, one must discover a cause to fight for. This cause is the purpose of our very existence; it is not meant to destroy us but to reveal our true potential. Being your real self and doing what you came here to do is what gives you freedom. It is time to find your purpose and be a rebel with […] - [Adrift or In Control: Steering Through Life’s Currents](https://loverevolutionblog.com/adrift-or-in-control-steering-through-lifes-currents/): It is common to find ourselves adrift, sailing in a sea of uncertainty. There is no sign of the shore; where we are heading is a mystery. The journey seems senseless, and though the waters are moving, we appear to be going nowhere. Some are aware of their current circumstances—they know they have no destination, route, or direction. However, others may not realize, or refuse to acknowledge, that they are castaways in a rocking boat, sailing aimlessly. We have two options: we can remain as we are and hope for a happy ending, or we can adjust the sails and […] - [Breaking the Barriers of the Mind: Overcoming Self-Limiting Beliefs](https://loverevolutionblog.com/breaking-the-barriers-of-the-mind-overcoming-self-limiting-beliefs/): There are no greater limitations than the ones we create in our own minds. Often, we limit ourselves through the beliefs we hold, and most of these limitations are illusions—creations of our thoughts. These are real only within the confines of our minds. To achieve your dreams and goals, you must first identify your limitations, challenge them, and exceed them! Our imaginary limitations are the reason for our failure. If our dreams haven’t yet become a reality, it’s because we’ve allowed these mental barriers to stop us. It’s not external limitations that defeat us, but our own beliefs. The beliefs […] - [The Rebellious Act of Liking Yourself](https://loverevolutionblog.com/the-rebellious-act-of-liking-yourself/): We live in a world so obsessed with external appearances that the package has become more important than the content. Nowadays, looking good on the outside has become our main priority, our obsession, and the only reason is to be accepted by a society that either condemns or glorifies you based on your appearance. Therefore, liking yourself in a society that plays with your self-esteem and expects you to feel ugly is a rebellious act that gives you freedom! This society wants us to believe that, in order to be successful, we need to look beautiful on the outside. From […] - [The Blueprint to Success: Change, Growth, and Perseverance](https://loverevolutionblog.com/the-blueprint-to-success-change-growth-and-perseverance/): Some circumstances in our lives are inevitable; some are simply a matter of luck, and others result from our actions. Our lives are not predetermined, but it’s easy to think they are because that way, we can avoid responsibility and blame destiny for our hardships. The truth is we create our lives through our actions, and if the outcomes we’re getting aren’t what we desire, it’s time to improve our life strategies. If we keep thinking the same thoughts, feeling the same emotions, and repeating the same actions, we will continue getting the same results. The question is: Are you […] - [Breaking Free From the Chains of Addiction](https://loverevolutionblog.com/breaking-free-from-the-chains-of-addiction/): We cease to be in charge of our own lives the day our addictions take control. On that day, we lose our freedom and become slaves to our addictions. They become the central aim and purpose of our lives, making us dependent on the satisfaction of that addiction in order to feel good, happy, or successful. To regain control of our lives, we must free ourselves from the chains of addiction. An addiction is the desperate need to have or do something. It creates a habit that enslaves us, making us dependent on that habit. It convinces us that we […] - [Create the Future You Dream Of, Starting Now!](https://loverevolutionblog.com/create-the-future-you-dream-of-starting-now/): The actions we take today are the foundation of our future. We create our own future, meaning we reap what we sow. We are the architects of our lives, and the future that awaits us is the one we are creating now. To live the life we’ve imagined, there is one important thing to remember: Our future starts today! The reality is that none of us know exactly what will happen in the future, but the actions we take in the present give us clues about what’s to come. It’s as simple as this: what we do—or fail to do—has consequences. […] - [Rise Above: Defeating Dream Killers with Confidence](https://loverevolutionblog.com/rise-above-defeating-dream-killers-with-confidence/): Along the path of life, we will encounter people who tell us we can’t do something. They will laugh at our dreams, criticize us, underestimate our abilities, and try to stop us from achieving our goals. These people are dream killers. They will try to convince you that your dreams are impossible — but you’re going to prove them wrong! It’s not personal; in fact, it has nothing to do with you. It’s something personal with themselves. Dream killers exist because someone once made them believe that dreams are impossible. Another dream killer convinced them that they couldn’t achieve their […] - [Calculated Risks: The Bridge Between Dreams and Success](https://loverevolutionblog.com/calculated-risks-the-bridge-between-dreams-and-success/): On the path to making our goals and dreams a reality, we will face many risks. Every goal and dream involves some level of risk. The decision to take certain risks or not will determine either our success or failure. Risks are simply challenges that can push us closer to our dreams. So, are you ready to take the necessary risks to make your dreams come true? Life itself is a risk. From the moment we are born, we face many uncertainties. As children, we take risks all the time. Even when we fear the unknown, we take risks to […] - [Is Your Past Still Driving?](https://loverevolutionblog.com/is-your-past-still-driving/): Sometimes, our past is more present than we realize — and that’s one of the reasons we find ourselves stuck in the same place. The truth is, anything from our past that we haven’t let go of still interferes with our present and prevents us from moving forward. That’s why, in order to reach our dreams and create the future we long for, we must first remove our past from our present.   How many things from your past are still living in your present? And I don’t just mean material things — I mean memories, thoughts, feelings, people, and […] - [The Scope of our Words](https://loverevolutionblog.com/the-scope-of-our-words/): We constantly speak or write, and many words come out from our mouth in one day. Some of them just fade away or are simply forgotten, but some of them keep resonating in someone else’s mind for hours, days, months and even years. The truth is the scope of our words can be higher than we think.   The words we speak can be more powerful than we imagine, depending on what we say, they can be a wonderful tool or a lethal weapon. Even one word can create a huge impact in the life of other people. The problem is […] - [Why Am I a Vegetarian?](https://loverevolutionblog.com/why-am-i-a-vegetarian/): Every time I say I am a vegetarian, people ask: Why? Well, Mahatma Gandhi once said: “Be the change you wish to see in the world” and that’s why I’ve decided to become a vegetarian, because I believe we can live in a world in peace, but peace is something we all create, and to demand peace, we must first start by being the source of it, and that includes the things we feel, think, say and do. And choosing life before death in our dishes is a way of making peace. I believe freedom makes us happy, and happiness […] - [When Our World Trembles: Facing Changes](https://loverevolutionblog.com/when-our-world-trembles-facing-changes/): Changes are part of life and at some point in our lives we are going to face them. Changes are hard to digest even when we have been looking for them, the problem is we are afraid of changes because we fear the unknown, and when a change appears, our world trembles. Therefore, we are going to have two options: We can face them and dance at the rhythm of tremor, or hide and let the tremor bury us. Many times in our lives we are going to face different types of changes, some of them will be created by […] - [Release the pain and heal your heart](https://loverevolutionblog.com/release-the-pain-and-heal-your-heart/): There are different moments in our lives where we are going to feel pain, it can be a superficial pain or a deeper pain, sometimes it can be for seconds, for hours, months or even years, and sometimes it never goes away, getting trapped in our hearts, contaminating our soul, and breaking our hearts, and the only way to stop it from hurting us is to release it from our hearts, letting it go away from our lives.   There are three different kind of people: The ones that swallow the pain, digest it and throw it away from their mind and […] - [Kindness: The Universal Language of Love](https://loverevolutionblog.com/kindness-the-universal-language-of-love/): What if I tell you that there is a way to understand each other regardless our nationality? What if I tell you that there is a language that everyone already knows that we can use to speak to each other? What if I tell you that there is a language that can bring us love and heal our hearts? Would you believe me? Well, that language actually exists, is the universal language of love, and it is called kindness, and it can change the way we live our lives. We live in a world where its inhabitants are every day […] - [The Benefits of Living a Minimalist Lifestyle](https://loverevolutionblog.com/the-benefits-of-living-a-minimalist-lifestyle/): Have you ever thought how would it be to live a minimalist lifestyle? Can you imagine how your life would be if you wouldn’t have the necessity to have more in order to be happier? Wouldn’t that be the key to a more fulfilled and balanced life? Wouldn’t that be freedom? Absolutely. Our life and our own minds would benefit from a minimalist lifestyle. Let’s analyze together the benefits of living a minimalist lifestyle. Nowadays we live in a world where we strive to have more. The problem is that we have accepted the idea that more equals more happiness, […] - [The Habit of Making Excuses](https://loverevolutionblog.com/the-habit-of-making-excuses/): We limit ourselves and sabotage our own dreams, goals and desires by making excuses. Our own excuses create barriers between us and our dreams, pushing away from us everything we have always wanted. Therefore, if we want to make our dreams come true, we must begin by leaving the habit of making excuses.   Every day we have a new excuse for not doing the things we have always wanted to do. We convince ourselves through the excuses we make, as a way of having a justification for not following the path that will lead us to the realization of […] - [A New Year: Hundreds of New Opportunities](https://loverevolutionblog.com/a-new-year-hundreds-of-new-opportunities/): Why the New Year is a motive to celebrate? Because life will give us 365 new opportunities to enjoy life and be happy, that is why in this time of the year our hearts are filled with dreams, desires and hope. Deep inside our hearts, we believe that this one could be the year where we can do everything we have always wanted to do, making our dreams and goals become a reality, and that is in fact true. The question will be: Are you 100% committed to give your best this year? The answer will determine your future.  At […] - [Small Steps Lead to Success](https://loverevolutionblog.com/small-steps-lead-to-success/): In order to achieve any goal and dream we must take small steps each day, because those are the ones that will lead us to success.  In a previous post, I wrote about the importance of taking the first step. The first step is decisive, and every step we make afterward will lead us to the place where we want to be. We can make all our dreams and desires a reality, one step at a time. The key to achieving our goals lies in the small steps we make each day. The amounts of steps we will have to […] - [Life is Made Up of Choices](https://loverevolutionblog.com/life-is-made-up-of-choices/): Life is made up of choices. In every single step of our lives we have the opportunity to choose. We create our world through the choices we make, therefore, our whole life is the result of the choices we have made. The main choice in our life is between choosing to feel good or to feel bad. Therefore, what are you going to choose today?   Every day we are faced with different types of choices and according to what we choose is the consequence we are going to have. There are some kind of circumstances that we are not […] - [Every Ending is Always a New Beginning](https://loverevolutionblog.com/every-ending-is-always-a-new-beginning/): Every ending is always a new beginning. When something ends, something new begins and a new beginning is always a new opportunity. Learning to see the end of something as an opportunity rather than a punishment would help to change our whole life experience in the moment when we begin a new chapter in our lives.   Every ending that I have experienced in my life was because something better was coming. If my life had never been full with endings and changes, everything that I have experienced in my life would have never happened. I am where I am […] - [Our Silence: The Weapon of Evil](https://loverevolutionblog.com/our-silence-the-weapon-of-evil/): The evil has triumphed, without much effort has defeated the good, snatching its crown, and now, sitting on its throne runs the world. Its power has been the inaction of the good people, and their silence was its lethal weapon. Our silence is causing our own destruction, therefore, it is in our hands to take action and stop so much suffering.   Our silence against the horrors of the world is what has given evil the power to conquer the world. Day after day, horrendous acts are being carried out around the world, and humanity remains silent. Evil acts with […] - [Visualization: A Great Tool for Success](https://loverevolutionblog.com/visualization-a-great-tool-for-success/): Visualization is a mental process that makes real our deepest dreams and goals through our imagination, that is to say, it pictures in our minds what we would like to achieve in our outside world. Visualization creates in our own minds the life of our dreams, and if we are able to achieve it in our own minds, we can achieve it in our real life.     Visualization is more powerful than we think, because it actually helps us to create the positive outcomes we would like to achieve in our lives. When you are able to see in […] - [Our Example: Our Legacy](https://loverevolutionblog.com/our-example-our-legacy/): It is known that words are the most basic and simple form of giving a message because the most powerful message is given by our example, and through it we can change everything for better or worse. Our example is our legacy, it makes a real difference in our world, therefore, what example are you going to give? An example knows no boundaries and knows no languages, it is the most powerful source of knowledge and education. It is through our example that we give the kind of message that will last in people’s minds. A person can take that […] - [The Importance of Tolerance](https://loverevolutionblog.com/the-importance-of-tolerance/): This world has become a world with zero tolerance. Our lack of tolerance for others’ opinions and beliefs has created this chaotic and maddening separation between human beings. The result of such separation? sadness, suffering, despair, hatred, and death. A world without tolerance is a world without peace, and a world without peace is a threat to our very existence.   What has made us think that our beliefs are better than others? What has made us think that we are the bearers of absolute truth? What has made us think that we can condemn others for thinking in a […] - [Our past doesn't define who we are](https://loverevolutionblog.com/our-past-doesnt-define-who-we-are/): Our past doesn’t define who we are, because we are not our past, but we are what we choose to be at this very moment. Somehow we have accepted the concept that our past define who we are, but the truth is that our past cannot define us, but we define ourselves through our behaviours and actions of our present.       Our past doesn’t define us, because the past is gone. The only thing that is here is our present, and what we have chosen to be now is what really define us. In every sunrise, each new […] - [In a dead end](https://loverevolutionblog.com/in-a-dead-end/): A dead end: That place of failure and despair that takes away from us all our dreams and desires, swallowing them into darkness. Once we are there, it seems to be no escape, our hands seem to be tied, our legs seem to be stuck into the ground and our heart seems to break apart. Everything seems to be over, but there is always a solution. The question is: Are we going to fight and find it or are we going to give up our dreams so easily?   How easy it is to dream, but how difficult it is […] - [Take the First Step](https://loverevolutionblog.com/take-the-first-step/): In order to reach our destination, we must begin the journey by taking the first step. Any victory depends on that first step. It is the first action, the first move, the first try, that can lead us to the place where we want to get. That first step makes everything possible and our following actions make it all come true.   Let’s analyze this: Everyone wants to win the jackpot, but how many of us actually goes and buy the ticket? The truth is that only a few of us do that, but why? The reason is simple: Our […] - [The Story of The Two Wolves: The Battle Within](https://loverevolutionblog.com/the-story-of-the-two-wolves-the-battle-within/): There are two wolves who are always fighting. One is darkness and despair, and the other is light and hope. The question is: which wolf wins?   The answer is: The one you feed. This is a great quote from a movie I saw a couple of days ago: Tomorrowland, which has a very inspirational and beautiful message, but it is in fact a Native American Cherokee story, and I would like to share it with you, please read it carefully, the message is wonderful, believe me, you won’t regret it: An old Cherokee is teaching his grandson about life. […] - [Lack of Empathy: The Murderer of our Humanity?](https://loverevolutionblog.com/lack-of-empathy-the-murderer-of-our-humanity/): Our lack of empathy, that is to say, our lack of ability to recognize and understand the feelings of another, is killing the humanity that is left in our society. Everything that is happening in the world just made me realize one thing: We have learned nothing. Our own world has been the witness of our own destruction through the years. For years the human beings has been fighting for different reasons, most of them has been the cause of our own separation, where most of the time was generated through the efforts of those who govern us, who have […] - [The Philosophy of Living: More Than Mere Existence](https://loverevolutionblog.com/do-we-live-or-we-merely-exist/): Do we live, or do we merely exist? Depending on whether we are free or not is what will determine the answer. But how do we know that? Because freedom makes us happy, thus, if we are happy we are free, and if we are free it means that we are truly living our life, otherwise, we only exist. The other day I was reading an article about pigeons, and I read something that really caught my attention. The article said that wild pigeons have a life expectancy of around 5 years while pigeons in captivity can live around 15 […] - [The Power of a Compliment](https://loverevolutionblog.com/the-power-of-a-compliment/): Normally we ignore the power of a compliment, not knowing how deep and magical a simple compliment can be. Unfortunately, the act of praising is easily forgotten in the chaos of our daily lives. The truth is that a single kind word, a simple, genuine, and unexpected compliment can change a person’s day.   A single compliment is like a caress for the soul. It can bring joy, strength, and courage to human souls. To give someone else a compliment is a way to recognize another person for something in particular, and it is a way to show others love […] - [What is Success?](https://loverevolutionblog.com/what-is-success/): Is success the road to happiness? How can we achieve success? Is there perhaps a special recipe for it? What should we do to be successful? In order to answer these questions we must ask ourselves this question first: What is success? In the answer to that question we can find the key to our success.   Have you ever thought about the real meaning of success? And what will make you a successful person? Have you ever wondered why you want to succeed? Do you think success is the road to happiness? The truth is that our own definition […] - [Discovering your life's purpose](https://loverevolutionblog.com/discovering-your-lifes-purpose/): Discovering your life’s purpose is not a simple thing but it’s the most important thing in your life, without a purpose, we merely exist. It is discovering the reason why we are here what gives life meaning, and living with a purpose that makes life much more interesting and challenging.   Have you ever wondered why you are here? Have you ever wondered if what you are doing right now is what you came here to do? If what you are doing now makes you feel dead inside is because that thing you are doing now is not your purpose, […] - [The Reflection of a Desperate Soul](https://loverevolutionblog.com/the-reflection-of-a-desperate-soul/): The reflection of a desperate soul is a short story about a woman who was lost, but who found her true self. It is a story that reflects what is happening to most of the people in our society. Nowadays most people are trying to be someone else, trying to be what other people want them to be, forgetting to be themselves. People just exist but they don’t truly live, that’s why there is so much pain and sadness in people’s hearts. So here goes the story…   “The reflection of a desperate soul” It was 5.45 pm on a […] - [Challenges are Opportunities in Disguise](https://loverevolutionblog.com/challenges-are-opportunities-in-disguise/): Challenges are opportunities in disguise, they seem to be against us but in fact, they are on our side. Challenges are opportunities that life gives us so we can become the best version of ourselves, they release the greatness and power that lies in all of us which we don’t even know we have.     Challenges are opportunities perfectly disguised as obstacles, and that’s why most of the time we see them as something that is against us, but challenges are given to us by life for a special purpose, they have a reason to exist, and they hold […] - [Do You Really Believe In Your Dreams?](https://loverevolutionblog.com/do-you-really-believe-in-your-dreams/): Do you really believe in your dreams? Because dreaming is not enough, in order to make your dreams come true, you must believe in them with all your heart. If you truly believe in your dreams, there is nothing that can stop you from making them become a reality. We all have dreams, but only a few of us are able to turn them into reality, and why this happen? Well, the reasons are varied, but one of the main reasons is that we don’t really believe in our dreams, within ourselves, in that place we do not know, where […] - [Take Full Responsibility For Your Life](https://loverevolutionblog.com/take-full-responsibility-for-your-life/): We are all responsible for our own lives, but we act as if someone else has control of our lives. The truth is most of the things that happen to us are for our actions or inactions, whatever we decide to do or not to do creates our reality. In order to live the life we want we must take full responsibility for our own life, doing everything we can to create what we would like to experience. It is not an external factor that limits us from achieving what we would like to achieve – it is us. We […] - [The pursuit of happiness - Part II](https://loverevolutionblog.com/the-pursuit-of-happiness-defining-happiness/): Happiness is a treasure that every human being on this earth seeks to find. Fortunately for all of us, happiness is not something exclusive for the minority but it’s something everyone can have. The problem is our lack of understanding of happiness which has given us wrong ideas about what really means and how can be achieved.   Defining Happiness In my previous post, I asked different questions, which can be very helpful to understand and define happiness, because to achieve true happiness we must understand it, so we can define better what it really means, because if you possess […] - [The Pursuit Of Happiness](https://loverevolutionblog.com/the-pursuit-of-happiness-understanding-happiness/): Every human being on this earth has the same desire: to be happy. Happiness is a wish we all have in common, every human on this planet wants to be happy, and everyone wishes to find eternal happiness but, what is it? Is it real? And if it does, how can it be achieved? Understanding Happiness I have always believed in happiness, but I have never been able to experience long-lasting happiness but only for a short period of time until I found out the true meaning of it, what gave me the clue where to look for it. The […] - [Worry serves no useful purpose](https://loverevolutionblog.com/worry-serves-no-useful-purpose/): We all share one particular habit, but not the kind of habit that is good for our health but rather the opposite, the habit that we all have in common is called “worry” and it serves no useful purpose at all.      We have the bad habit of worrying too much, as if worrying about something could be used as a magic wand to change what is going on or what we think is going on. The truth is nobody has ever changed something that happened in the past or something that is supposed to happen in the future […] - [Be fearlessly authentic!](https://loverevolutionblog.com/be-fearlessly-authentic/): We live in a world where being a copy is much easier than being authentic because we are always being influenced by the society in which we live which is constantly forcing us to stop being who we really are, so we can become a stereotyped model of perfection.     Nowadays being authentic means you have to fight a hard battle where you will always begin losing because your adversary has the power to convince you to become a cheap copy of something else which is a far greater power than the one you have to convince yourself to […] - [Time is limited, use it wisely!](https://loverevolutionblog.com/time-is-limited-use-it-wisely/): From the day we were born, we have been granted a wonderful gift from heaven, the gift of having time to experience this amazing, beautiful, magical, extraordinary, and sometimes complicated life, but the time we have is limited and there is no way we can extend it. Life is an amazing gift, and so it is our precious time, without it we would not be able to be here to enjoy this wonderful experience to be alive. The problem with us is we are living our life as if it were endless, and so we waste our precious time as […] - [You Are Allowed To Make Mistakes](https://loverevolutionblog.com/you-are-allowed-to-make-mistakes/): It is through mistakes that we become wiser, and so you should allow yourself to make mistakes, don’t be afraid of making them, and just be afraid of not trying anything new for fear of making mistakes because it is in that moment where you make the biggest mistake of all: The mistake of being too afraid to live truly.   There is no other way to learn without making a mistake first, every successful person you have met has not reached that place of glory without having made many mistakes along the way. They have been defeated many times, […] - [Are your fears holding you back?](https://loverevolutionblog.com/are-your-fears-holding-you-back/): If you find yourself feeling miserable, making excuses for not having done the things you always wanted to do, it’s probably because you have allowed your fears to control your mind, and when you do that you let your fears control your entire life. Fears are powerful, they can either trigger the greatness inside of you that will make you create the life of your dreams, or they can destroy your spirit and make your life a nightmare. Fears are part of life, there is no way we can avoid them, they exist in every culture and in every place […] - [Why Do We Fall?](https://loverevolutionblog.com/why-do-we-fall/): We fall because there is something there we are supposed to find, otherwise we wouldn’t have fallen. Sometimes we lack something in our lives we don’t even know we are missing, we realize that when we fall. It is in that place of darkness and suffering where we find the light we were looking for, it is in that place where we find ourselves. Falling is part of life, because it is not something you can avoid. After all, the only way you can avoid falling is by doing nothing and being no one. So falling isn’t as bad as […] - [Nourishing Your Mind With Positive Thoughts](https://loverevolutionblog.com/nourishing-your-mind-with-positive-thoughts/): We are what we eat and so it is with our mind: we are what we think, depending on how you feed your mind, is what you are going to experience in your life. You can have a positive mind or you can have a negative mind, what makes the difference between one and the other is the choice you make when you feed it and what you decide to consume every day.   What we eat and drink through our mouth daily has consequences in our bodies, either short-term or long-term: We can eat spoiled food and feel sick […] - [What is Love?](https://loverevolutionblog.com/what-is-love/): We live in a world where humans have been separated from each other, but there is something that unites us despite our nationality, breed, gender, or age, and we call it love. We speak different languages but we all speak the language of love. We all have experienced love, and we all talk about love but: What is love? And what is its true meaning?     We never ask ourselves this question or at least the majority of us, and I wasn’t the exception. One day a friend of mine asked me, and when I tried to answer, I […] - [The way to the top](https://loverevolutionblog.com/the-way-to-the-top/): The way to the top it’s tough, but it isn’t as tough as living the rest of your life looking at it from below and wishing to be there. You will find on the way to the top many difficulties, but it will be worth it because the view from the top is definitely outstanding.   We all want to reach the top of something, for some of us it can be really high, and for others not so much, the important thing is to have the desire to get somewhere, that means we have something that motivates us to […] - [Self-Care vs. Selfishness: A Thin Line with a Big Difference](https://loverevolutionblog.com/self-care-vs-selfishness/): We usually confuse self-care with selfishness and the other way around, this is a common mistake we make in our daily lives, and not being able to see the difference is what is causing a huge disaster in humanity. It is hard for us to see the difference between them because they have the same meaning except for one simple detail, which makes a huge difference. Both self-care and selfishness mean the care of oneself, and loving ourselves in the first place. The difference that changes everything is that selfishness is only concerned with one’s own benefits regardless of others, […] - [Letting Go to Move On: The Power of Releasing Resentment](https://loverevolutionblog.com/resentment-is-poison-for-your-life/): Resentment is poison for your life, as it’s made with the perfect and lethal combination of fear, disappointment, anger, and sadness, and this is one of the best recipes for suffering. If you want to live a happy life, you must let go of your resentment.   Resentment is what forbids us to recreate ourselves anew, because it ties us to past situations where we felt humiliated, sad, disappointed, or angry, so instead of living in the present, we live tied to our past, and we repeat those past feelings over and over again, even if what we are going […] - [The Poison of Jealousy: How to Free Your Mind and Find Peace](https://loverevolutionblog.com/jealousy-is-a-destructive-emotion/): Jealousy is a destructive emotion and it can only generate destructive outcomes. The truth is jealousy never brings anything good, as it consumes our mind and our reality becomes a nightmare. Jealousy is a direct reflection of how we feel about ourselves and our whole life because it shows how much we lack. Jealousy is poison to our spirit and is extremely toxic, as it contaminates our souls and hearts. There are many reasons why we are jealous, from my experience, I believe that the main reasons are due to our lack of self-esteem, self-confidence, and self-love, and when this […] - [We are our own worst enemy](https://loverevolutionblog.com/we-are-our-own-worst-enemy/): We are our own worst enemies, and most of the time, we haven’t even noticed that. Because we are too focused on blaming others for our misfortunes, we have the wrong belief that life is our enemy when, in fact, our true enemy is ourselves. If you feel that nothing is going right in your life, if you feel that your relationship, your job, your career, or anything else is not going as you wanted, and if you keep pointing fingers at others, making them guilty for your failure, thinking that everyone is your enemy, let me tell you something. […] - [Stop complaining and start enjoying life!](https://loverevolutionblog.com/stop-complaining-and-start-enjoying-life/): One reason we don’t enjoy life is that we are always complaining. Complaining only gives us more things to complain about, and life can never be enjoyed if we forget to be happy while complaining too much.     We are always complaining no matter the situation: We complain because it’s winter and it’s too cold, and we complain because it’s summer and it’s too hot. We complain if we don’t have a job because we need more money, and we complain if we have a job because the pay is too low, because we don’t like what we are […] - [Don't settle for less than you deserve](https://loverevolutionblog.com/dont-settle-for-less-than-you-deserve/): Don’t settle for less just because it’s easier than fighting for what you truly deserve; sometimes, we have to be willing to lose everything to get everything. If you know who you are, what you can do, and what you deserve, go out and get it, and don’t settle!   Don’t settle for crumbs; you know deep inside your heart that you deserve more; you know that the life you want is possible; you wish and dream every day of a miracle that can change your life, and that is because you know you have settled for less. Don’t be […] - [Beyond Numbers: How Attitude Outshines Age in Defining Our Lives](https://loverevolutionblog.com/age-is-nothing-but-a-number/): Age is nothing but a number to which we have attached great significance. Somehow, we have given it more meaning than we should, and so we let a number control our lives. The truth is that age does not define us or our destiny because it is not our age that counts but our attitude.     As today is my 26th birthday, I was thinking about life and age and how they influence our lives. It seems that we have an age for everything: an age to learn and study, an age to have fun, an age to get […] - [Stepping outside your comfort zone](https://loverevolutionblog.com/get-out-of-your-comfort-zone/): We make decisions all the time. Every new step we make in our life is followed by another new decision we must make, some of those decisions are not going to have any repercussions but some of those decision yes, and there is one decision that can change your whole life: The decision to get out of your comfort zone.   My life was quite the same as everyone else, and like most of the people in this world, I was just existing, but one day, I was wondering, what if I die tomorrow? Can I say that I have […] - [Happy Valentine's Day!](https://loverevolutionblog.com/happy-valentines-day/): Happy Valentine’s Day! Let today be the day we remember love and let’s spread it to everyone around us, let’s take this day into our hearts day after day for the rest of our lives because love is all there is.     Love should be the most important thing we should remember this day. It doesn’t matter what is our marital status, there is always someone who we can give our love. Most of the time we underestimate the power of love because we are not aware of the extent of our love, even with a small amount of […] - [Judge less, Love more](https://loverevolutionblog.com/judge-less-love-more/):   The problem is we judge too much. We go through life judging everyone around us as if we were superior species from another galaxy whom they do everything well, and whom always make the best decisions. But the truth is that we are all humans and we all have the right to do whatever we want according to our own vision of life.     “Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.” – […] - [What motivates me?](https://loverevolutionblog.com/what-motivates-me/): There is one simple question we must ask ourselves: What motivates me?, once you find the answer to that question, you will find the reason of your existence, so you will finally know why are you here and what is your mission on this planet.   I really believe that every human on earth is here for a reason, the trick is to find it. The best way to know what is our purpose in this life is by knowing what really motivates us. Motivation is what causes us to act in a specific way at a particular time and […] - [Love Yourself](https://loverevolutionblog.com/love/): The longest relationship you will ever have is with yourself, so the best decision you can make is to love yourself first. Once you decide to love yourself, everything around you will make more sense, and you will no longer suffer needlessly. We suffer needlessly because we seek for others to give us the love we can’t give to ourselves, and when we seek for others to love us, we become dependent on the love of others to be happy, so when someone doesn’t love us and treat us as we would like, we feel sad, and our whole world […] ## Pages - [Blog](https://loverevolutionblog.com/blog/) - [Home](https://loverevolutionblog.com/): Welcome Love, for me, is attention — the decision to be here, now, with life as it is. Love as a practice. Life as it is. A rebellion against autopilot A return to what matters A softer life with a stronger heart Love Revolution is a personal space for choosing love as a way of living — not as perfection, not as something we wait to feel when everything finally goes right, but as a daily practice. Here, love means coming back to yourself with tenderness, even with your flaws and imperfections. It means making peace with the fact that […] - [Contact Me](https://loverevolutionblog.com/contact-me/): [gravityform id=”1″ title=”false” description=”true”] - [About Me](https://loverevolutionblog.com/about/): Hi, I’m Melisa, but you can call me Meli. I’m originally from Argentina, and I’m just a normal girl who somehow ended up living in Northern Europe after a big life plot twist. I moved to Europe years ago searching for something… I didn’t even know what. Maybe myself. Maybe peace. Maybe meaning. Probably all of it. Over the years, I’ve lived in Denmark, Ireland, and Norway, and each place changed me in a different way. Moving countries, starting over, learning new languages, being far from my family, building a new life from scratch… it made me grow up fast, but it also opened my […] [comment]: # (Generated by Hostinger Tools Plugin)