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Why do we care about what others think?

Why do we care about what others think? The answer to that question is very simple: We are looking to be accepted all the time, the fear of being rejected scare us to a point where we forget who we are by being what we are not, a prefabricated product created by society.


The greates prison people live in is the fear of what other people think.



We are looking for acceptance all the time, dominated by the fear for what other people think about us, we act based in what is right for people, and not what is right for us. All the time we act according to what is best for others in that moment, because the fear controls our actions all the time, so we lose the control of everything, and the worst thing is that we lose ourselves.

It doesn’t matter by whom, but we are always looking to be accepted by someone, because by being accepted by other, we can accept ourselves.



“If you live for people’s acceptance you will die from their rejection” – Lecrae



And there my friend is where we can find the beginning of this problem:

If we don’t accept ourselves first, how is another person going to accept us as we really are?

We need to accept ourselves as we are, and that includes everything, also our imperfections, we need to love ourselves and be happy for who we are. And what I want to say here is that is totally right to want to improve ourselves, and wish to be better and better person, but only if that change we want to accomplish is inspired by us for us, and not in order to please someone else.


Once we accept ourselves as we are, and decide who we want to be, without being influenced by someone else, then we will feel accepted everywhere, and maybe not by others, but we will always feel accepted by ourselves, feeling free to think, to say, and to do whatever we want without being afraid to what other people will think about us.



“Care what other people think and you will always be their prisoner” – Lao Tzu



Once you know what kind of person you are, and what kind of person you want to become in your life, you will not be afraid to others opinion about you anymore, because you know yourself, you know who you are, what you can give, what you can do, what you can achieve and you love yourself just the way you are, so you will set yourself free from any unnecessary pain as you will never be damaged again by the opinions of other people.



“The unhappiest people in this world are those who care the most about what other people think.” – C. JoyBell C.


Remember that the opinions of others are mostly generated from people who don’t believe in themselves, and who don’t accept them as they are, people who feel insecure and unsatisfied, people who are always looking to fit in this world by being someone else.

Losing our fear to what other people think about us, will set us free to be whatever we want to be in our life, we’ll be no longer a slave, freeing us from the chain that society has imposed, and we will not fear any more, walking with confidence, and acting in every second of our life according to what fit with our true personality.



“What other people think of you is not your business. If you start to make that business your business, you will be offended for the rest of your life.” – Deepak Chopra


Life could be amazing if we could just love ourselves for who we are, without being someone to please others. You came to this world to be whatever you want to be, you don’t come here to please your family, your friends, the society in which you live, your boss, your colleagues at work, and nobody, you come here to be who you really are, and give to the world the best you can.

So release yourself and stop being a slave from what other people think, accept yourself as you are, improve and get better every day, do whatever it takes to become who you want to be in order to achieve what you want to achieve, just because you have the power to do that and just to please the purpose of your soul.



“Don’t take anything personally; nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won’t be the victim of needless suffering” – Miguel Ruiz



Life is too short to worry about others opinion about you, those are their opinions and not yours anyway, right? Our time on this planet is limited, our days are counted, day after day, second after second, so why wasting our precious time by being what other people want us to be? It is you and only you who will live your life, so you better do what you love, think and feel freely as you please, say whatever you want to say, to whomever you want, whenever you want it, because as I said before, time is limited, and we are running out of time.



Live your life and be the best version of yourself and not being the best version for someone else, do everything you want, without fear of the opinions of others and you will be free.

Love Revolution

The human beings are facing a serious problem; the society in which we live is rotting, our brains have been washed, and the big issue of all is our lack of love, we need to love again, we need a love revolution!





The virus that has been implanted in our brains have killed most of the most valuable things that we have as human beings: the ability to love ourselves, our world, our nature, and every single human being in this world, we have lost the power to create everything we want, and we have forgotten who we really are and why we are really here.

The greatest problem of all is that we have changed the meaning of love, forgetting what love really means. The world is under so much pain right now, because human beings are not only loving in a very selfish and superficial way, giving love to things with no value, and there we can find the worst of all diseases: the love for money.




“Only when the last tree has died, and the last river has been poisoned, and the last fish has been caught will we realize we can’t eat money.” – Cree Indian Proverb



We are more in love with money, that any other thing in the world. And how can I know that? Because you just need to see the world, and what is happening right now, to see that what I’m saying it’s true! The problem is that the people are so blind, that they cannot see what is really happening. Humans have lost their common sense, becoming victims of their madness for money and power, making the worst atrocities and all in the name of money. Our love for money is the first cause of the pain, suffering and destruction of human existence.

The world is dying, we are pushing and pushing all our resources to the limit, jeopardizing our existence. The world, our home, desperately needs love, but not the cheap and rotten love we give every day but we need real and pure love. We need to learn how to love again and spread love to the world, so we can heal our hearts and the whole world. The solution is to focus in what really matters, learning to love ourselves again, and everyone out there, we need to understand again that we are not separated from each other, and what we do to others, we do to ourselves too.




“The planet does not need more successful people. The planet desperately needs more peacemakers, healers, restorers, storytellers and lovers of all kinds.” – Dalai lama




There are some questions about human behavior that have been in my mind, which I cannot understand:


How is it possible that are still people out there killing each other, people stealing, people with no home, with nothing to eat, with no drinking water, with no access to education, health and with no kind of right to have a decent life?

How is it possible that we know that we are destroying our planet, knowing that the result will be the end of life on earth and we don’t do anything about it?

How is it possible that we keep separating people for nationality, race, religion, gender, age and social status giving human rights depending where you belong, having some of them more rights than others to have a decent life?

How is it possible that there are people still deprived of their freedom? How is it possible that slavery still exists?

How is possible that we have been blessed with a wonderful planet which have all the resources for the survival of the human beings and we destroy it every day by our careless actions?

How is it possible that we have been blessed with a magnificent human body, which allows us to experience the wonderful gift of the life on earth and we destroy it by consuming all the crap we consume each day, without taking care of it until it’s too late?

How is it possible that we have been blessed with an extraordinary mind, having all the power, abilities and skills to do and create wonderful things and we use it to destroy?

How is it possible that we have a beautiful heart with the wonderful ability to feel and to give love, and we use it to hate and hurt?




“In the End, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends.” – Martin Luther King, Jr.




And as I said before, the answer to all this questions is that we have lost out common sense, we mixed up the real priorities in life with less important things, we forgot about love, and we have become so blind that we can’t see what is happening, and if we can see it, we just don’t care, because we don’t want anything to distract us from our desperate race after money, power, material things, and a social status that will make us stand out from the rest. We have become so superficial that we forgot what is really important in life, allowing the evil in all of us, to bring the worst of ourselves, and give it back to the world, what have created a reality of hate, suffering, insanity and pain.

And what it makes this entire situation sicker, is that we have accepted that reality as an unchangeable fact, taking the easy and cowardly way, as it takes a lot of courage to go against the flow and do what it takes to change the world. It’s easier to complain than do something to change it.




“I alone cannot change the world, but I can cast a stone across the waters to create many ripples.” – Mother Theresa



But today we can change history, we can create a better future. Don’t settle with this world believing what they told you about it, that this is the real one, the ideal, this perverse system has confused us, maddened us. But I know that deep inside yourself you know that, you want a better world, you yearn another world. If deep inside your heart you feel that this life doesn’t bring you joy and happiness, don’t settle, there is still hope. Life can be better that this sinister reality that consume our souls.

So, what the world and humanity need is that the people gather together, we need a group of soldiers with heart willing to love, being ready to build and not to destroy, giving all the love they can, to open the eyes of human beings, so we can change our reality and the whole destiny of the human race.





It is time my friends, to give the world what is lacking the most, it is time to stop with all sadness and pain and suffering in the world, we need to make humans remember that love exists, and so heal this hell that surround us. Let’s gather together in this revolution, in the name of God, in the name of love, and let’s go out fearless and courageous to conquer human’s hearts with love. It is time for a LOVE REVOLUTION!

Everything is possible, believe it!

Everything is possible, we can make our dreams come true, but we must believe in ourselves, because a dream is just a dream and it will always be that if we don’t do anything to change that!


Since we were born we have been blessed with the most wonderful gift we can ever have…

The gift of life


You came to this wonderful place to be the most amazing person you can ever been, you came to have it all, you came to discover who you really are and who do you want to be and you have all the resources to have the life of your dreams, but for some reason we just make this amazing life look like a horrible place…

and why? Why having it all to make this place a paradise we just want to keep saying that life is a nasty place? Why?


Because people have a special passion:

The passion for suffering!


I mean I’m serious, because with one thought just one single thought you can change everything, with a wonderful feeling, that feeling called:

Love: love for everything around you.


”We came to love and be loved.”


If you just can have love and give love to every single person and thing around you, you can transform this place into a paradise, you will find the true happiness, if you just can feel gratitude for everything, every single day, every single second of your life, for everything  you got, you have and you will have and I swear that  you can transform this place into heaven, you can have it all, all you ever dreamed of, you just have to believe, believe in you, believe that everything is out there waiting for you to start believing! You must be happy and grateful for everything you already have and you have to love yourself with all your heart so then you can love everyone, and I’m saying every one!  Not only your wife, husband, children, girlfriend, boyfriend, family or friend, every single person in this world!  See? We can just live in heaven but not, we don’t and why?

Because we don’t believe, we only focus in what we don’t want, in what we hate, in how hard life is and how disgusting is and why?

Like I said we just don’t believe in the things that look too good, we just think: Oh no there must be something wrong with that! Is not possible, magic doesn’t exist, just accept that life is horrible! So when you have the possibility to have the job of your dreams and earn the money you ever wanted, you just think: Oh no! it sounds too good, I can’t have it, dreams can’t come true or you found the love of your life but what do you think? She/he must be lying in some point, She/he can’t be so perfect or amazing, She/he will probably hurt me one day and I will be devastated, so what do you do with all those fears and thoughts?


”You create your own reality.”



You just make your thoughts come true, you make your dreams be only that.. Dreams for ever and nothing else, you can make it true! But no, people doesn’t want to because people don’t believe, they don’t love themselves  so they think they can’t have it all because you think you don’t deserve it just because you don’t love yourself and because you don’t love yourself you can’t love other and others can’t love you, so you are back again in your horrible reality thinking life is horrible, life is suffering, I can’t have it all, dreams can’t come true, love doesn’t exist, so you just conform yourself with nothing, with a horrible life, with a job you don’t want, with a relationship that sucks because you just think you can’t have better things and only because  you only want to believe that life is like that, you leave everything to destiny, to luck and to whatever you think, you complain about everything and you keep living as life was a fortune wheel where someone can have a wonderful life, a wonderful family, friends, the love of their dreams, the money, the job and anything their ever wanted and that you have been the unlucky one and that you have to accept it.

But let me tell you something, you make your own reality, you can have it all, you can have the life of your dreams, the love of your life, the best friends in the world, the job you ever wanted, everything!

Just start believing in it!


”Believe you can and you are halfway there.”



And don’t forget to love yourself and love anyone around you, give love every single day of your life because if you don’t give it, how are you going to have it then?

Be grateful for every single thing you have and you will have and for every single person around you who makes the life a better place!

Be happy and grateful for what you got, for what you have, for what you will have, love with all your heart, believe that the things you want are there waiting for you and believe that dreams can come true, if you really want!


”There is always something to be grateful for.”


You have everything you want, is just there in front of your eyes believe and you will see it! Believe that good things are not possible and continue with your life and thinking that life is suffering, that your job has to be the worst thing, that you can’t earn the money you want and that you relationship has to be horrible, that you have to suffer and cry and be sad, because everyone says that life is like that!

So, if you don’t want that reality anymore, start believing now and you will see that everything is possible, that you deserve the best in the world, that you deserve to be happy, you deserve to be loved and anything you want!

Believe and you will see what you can’t see, Believe and you will be happy for ever,  Believe and you will make your dreams come true!


It is my wish to you and every single person of this amazing world! 🙂